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Why are we extremists sometimes?

Karim Baz • December 29, 2023

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to tend toward extremism? 

Why do we sometimes find ourselves immersed in extreme emotional situations? 
In this post, we will delve into the psychology behind our search for extremes, and explore what drives our unconscious desire to live life on the edge. 


The allure of extremes: The thrill of intensity


As humans, we are naturally drawn to intense experiences. 

Whether it's the adrenaline rush we get from extreme sports or the exhilaration of a heart-pounding roller coaster ride, we are wired to seek out and enjoy intense sensations. 

This love for intensity often translates into other areas of our lives, including our emotions. Escaping the ordinary Living life on the extremes allows us to temporarily escape the monotony of everyday life. 
When we find ourselves caught in a rut, seeking out extreme emotional situations can be a way to break free from the mundane and experience something out of the ordinary. It gives us a sense of novelty and excitement that can be addicting. 

The psychology behind extremism

Seeking validation and identity 

For some individuals, engaging in extreme behaviors or holding extreme beliefs can provide a sense of validation and identity.

By aligning themselves with a particular cause or group, they feel a sense of belonging and purpose. Extremism may offer a way to stand out and be recognized as someone with strong convictions.

Emotional regulation 

Engaging in extreme emotional situations may also serve as a way to regulate our emotions. When we are feeling overwhelmed or emotionally numb, seeking out extremes can help us feel alive and in control.

It allows us to channel our emotions in a way that feels impactful and cathartic. 

Impaired decision-making 

When we are caught up in the intensity of extreme emotions, our ability to think rationally and make sound decisions may be compromised. We may become more impulsive and prone to taking unnecessary risks.

This can have serious consequences for our well-being and the well-being of those around us. 

Alienation and radicalization 

Extremism often involves aligning ourselves with a particular group or ideology, which in some cases, can lead to feelings of alienation from those who do not share our beliefs.

This can create an us-versus-them mentality and fuel radicalization.

It might also lead to the exclusion and marginalization of individuals who do not conform to the extreme views held by

a particular group.



Finding a balance!

While it is natural to seek out intense experiences and emotions, it is important to find a balance in our lives.

Embracing extremes should not come at the expense

of our well-being or the well-being of others. 

Here are some strategies to help find that balance: 


  • Self-reflection


Take the time to reflect on your motivations for seeking out extremes.

Are you looking for validation, excitement, or emotional regulation?

Understanding your underlying motivations can help you make more conscious choices. 


  • Engage in healthy outlets


Find healthy outlets for intense emotions or desires.

This could include engaging in physical exercise, practicing mindfulness, or pursuing creative endeavors.

These outlets can provide a sense of fulfillment and excitement without the negative consequences associated with extremism.


  • Seek support


If you find yourself struggling with extreme behaviors or beliefs, consider seeking support.

Having a safe space to explore your emotions and beliefs can help you find healthier ways to navigate your desires for intensity.

By understanding the reasons behind our search for intensity, we can make more conscious choices and find healthier outlets for our desires. 


Remember, finding a balance is key to living a fulfilling and sustainable life.

So, why are we extremists sometimes?


It's a complex question with no easy answers, but by exploring the underlying motivations

and consequences, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and our capacity for extremes. 



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